We need to address the elephant in the class. Why do teachers always say "Putus dulu, nanti lepas SPM"?
Because statistically, most budak sekolah who are beromen drop their targets. Why?
But here is the plot twist: Relationship is not the enemy. Immaturity is. budak sekolah beromen target better
Why would a "better" person want you? Are you interesting? Are you kind? Are you focused?
A high-value person attracts another high-value person. We need to address the elephant in the class
Statistically, the person you date at 15 is not your future spouse. I know TikTok shows you those "High School Sweethearts Married at 25" videos, but for every one of those, there are 1,000 breakups.
So, are you willing to ruin your SPM results (which determine your university and scholarship options) for a person who likely won't be in your life by the time you are 20? But here is the plot twist: Relationship is not the enemy
If your answer is "Yes," you need therapy, not a boyfriend/girlfriend.
If your answer is "No," then it's time to target better.